being a couple is great!

being a couple is great.  but always remember that a relationship is made up for two *individuals* who have their own wants and needs. both inside and outside of the relationship. it's critical that both invest in the relationship, but maintaining their own personal wants and interests is just an important.

it;s not 'compromise' when you sacrifice what you want for you. it's called self-sacrifice. which leads to resentment and a sense of being unfulfilled in the long run.

#the prob with women is men#