324 days ago..

rindu itu terasa bukanlah disaat kesunyian..
rindu itu hadir bukanlah apabila disaat memerlukan..
rindu itu wujud bukan kerana perlukan apa-apa.

tetapi rindu itu hadir kerana perasaan kasih dan sayang kepada seseorang..
perhatian bukanlah kerana perempuan perlukan 'perhatian'..
because attention is loving..

andai tak mampu mendengar walaupun secebis untaian kata..
mana mungkin kamu mengharapkan orang lain memahami diri kamu? ( kan..kan..)

dulu cinta itu hadir apabila saling memerlukan..
tapi dengan peredaran detik dari minggu ke bulan sehingga ke tahun..
my perception has changed. Honesty is love..yeaaaaah!

kejujuran menjadikan perasaan ini semakin menghargai pasangan..
kejujuran menguatkan perasaan yang sedia tersimpul..
bila terlalu menyayangi pasangan.
bukanla peluang pertama atau kedua yang dipertaruhkan
andai tercetusnya khilaf..

tetapi mengharapkan pasangan berubah..
bukanla menjadi yang terbaik mahupun yang sempurna..
cukupla sekadar jujur dalam melontarkan kata-kata..
saling menjaga maruah walaupun dimana jua berada..
seberapa jauh jarak yang memisahkan.

mengharapkaan hanya sebelah pihak berkelakuan jujur..
menjaga diri.. tidak curang bukanla cara yang terbaik dalam sesuatu perhubungan..

simbiosis..
saling melengkapi antara satu sama lain dengan ikhlas dan percaya..
insyaAllah..

Dear girls..

Dear girls, I know some of you guys compare yourselves to other girls, wishing you were photogenic like them, wishing you could look pretty without trying like them, wishing you had facial features like them, wishing you had physical features like them, & then you look in the mirror & say 'Why do I look like this & not like that.' Well, let me tell you this. Don't try to be like them, be like yourself. I can promise you, there is a guy out there right now who thinks you are beautiful exactly the way you are, & thinks you're prettier than the girls you compare yourselves to. Don't change a damn thing about yourself. You're perfect. 

Sincerely,
suri che abdul wahab

what's your number?

hi guys..Assalamualaikum and very good afternoon. I feel so blues today. #malas and #sleepyhead. okehh let's back tot the title. what's your number? first? second? third? scandalicious? one in a million? #sigh#

my 2cent opinion. why would you ( girls ) ever choose to settle down to be someone's second option? there is so much greatness inside of you girls that if someone isn't willing to devote their all to you, you should never let them take advantage of them by giving them your all. when we choose to allow love to blossom in our lives, be sure to pick the flower that will be there in both the sunshine and in the rain. someone who isn't dedicated to being with you through it all, and who would even make an attempt to give someone else the love you deserve, doesn't deserve you. 

Lastly, think smart stay true girls. much love.

(entry dikala menunggu masa nak pulang rumah :p )

just keeping it real

I'm only me.
That is all I can be.
No more, no less, don't second guess.
I love, I live, I laugh, I cry.
Some days I'm funny. Others  I'm not.
Sometimes I'm in overdrive and I can't stop.
You may not like me.
but that's okay because this is me and how I'll stay.

I'd like to wish happy fasting to all my Muslim friends

and I hope your Ramadhan will be a fruitful one. :)

dari kaca mata makwe #pffttt

kalau lelaki kacak pendiam

perempuan akan cakap 'wow! cool giler'

kalau lelaki tak kacak pendiam

perempuan akan cakap 'elehh! perasan bagus'

kalau lelaki kacak buat jahat

perempuan akan cakap 'nobody's perfect'

kalau lelaki tak kacak buat jahat

perempuan akan cakap 'memang! dahla muka macam longkang'

kalau lelaki kacak menolong perempuan yang diganggu

perempuan akan cakap 'wah macho! macam hero filem'

kalau lelaki tak kacak menolong perempuan yang diganggu

perempuan akan cakap 'ahh entah-entah kawan dia'

kalau lelaki kacak dapat awek cun

perempuan akan cakap 'amboiii sepadan sangat'

kalau lelaki tak kacak dapat awek cun

perempuan akan cakap 'sah-sah kena bomoh laateewww'

kalau lelaki kacak ditinggalkan kekasih

perempuan akan cakap 'i give you my shoulder'

kalau lelaki tak kacak ditinggalkan kekasih

perempuan akan cakap 'patutla, tgk saja luarannya'

kalau lelaki kacak suka binatang

perempuan akan cakap 'perasaan halus penuh kasih sayang'

kalau lelaki tak kacak suka binatang

perempuan akan cakap 'dah sesama makhluk memangla kena sayang'

kalau lelaki kacak bawak BMW

perempuan akan cakap 'jack! perfect luar dalam'

kalau lelaki tak kacak bawak BMW

perempuan akan cakap 'bang, bos nyer mana?'

kalau lelaki kacak tak mahu bergambar

perempuan akan cakap 'pasti tak mahu gambarnya tersebar'

kalau lelaki tak kacak tak mahu bergambar

perempuan akan cakap 'tak sanggup aku tengok hasilnya'

kalau lelaki kacak menuang air ke dalam gelas

perempuan akan cakap 'ini baru namanya gentleman'

kalau lelaki tak kacak menuang air ke dalam gelas

perempuan akan cakap 'ahh naluri helpful memang begitu'

nothing goes right. why?

If you dress nicely, he says you're a snob.
If you dress sexy, he says you're a slut.
If you argue with him, he says you're stubborn.
If you're quiet, he says you're stupid.
If you call him, he says you're needy and clingy.
If he calls you, he says you should be grateful.
If you don't love him, he'll try to win you.
If you love him, he'll leave you.
If you don't f*** him, he'll say you don't love him.
If you do, he'll say you're easy.
If you tell him your problems, he'll say you're irritating.
If you don't , he'll say you don't trust him.
If you lecture him, he'll say you're bitchy.
If he lectures you, it's because he "cares".
If you break a promise, you can't be trusted.
If he breaks it, he had to.
If you cheat, he'll expect it to be over.
If he cheats, he expects to be given another chance either way.


what else?

perempuan itu..

perempuan itu bukan BANK
jika hendak ape main order saje
bile dah dapat usahkan berterima kasih
senyum jauh sekali

perempuan itu bukan macam KASUT
setiap hari kau nak tukar pakai

perempuan itu bukan macam TUNGGUL
kau datang bila kau memerlukan
dan diam bile kau rase dia tak berguna

perempuan itu bukan macam MIKROFON
yang kau sesuka hati nak tengking 
arah ke sana ke mari

perempuan itu bukan garang macam HARIMAU
adakalanya manjanya memerlukan perhatian dan belaian
maklumla semua makhluk berperasaan

perempuan itu bukan macam CHEWING GUM
bile manis kau kunyah-kunyah
bila hilang manis die kau tuiiiihhh tuiiiiih dia
macam tue je

perempuan itu bukan kerjanya jadi BADUT
kerja untuk menghiburkan kau saja
sambil kau ketawakan dia

sedangkan apa yang dia buat semua
semata-mata kerana kau. tapi?
tapi ape balasan kau terhadap perempuan?

perempuan yang bakal menjadi isteri dan ibu untuk
anak-anak kau kelak. andai tak mampu memberikan senyuman
sekurang-kurangnya janganla jadi penyebab untuk perempuan
menitiskan airmata.

honesty is the best policy and is critical in any relationship

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