a FriENd iN nEEd's a FriENd iNdEEd

hyee peeps, have a great weekend..

Lets talk about friend. Being a good guy/girl to be around, you'll get more friends than you could ever imagine.We all want to have true friends, but the quality of our friends depend on us.In addition, being a true friend is a good way to solve relationships problem. It’s difficult to change other people, but you can always change yourself. You can then solve the otherwise unsolved problems in relationships. Nie ape yang aku fikir2kan laaaa..let's cekidaut; :)

1. befriend yourself (easy but not so easy)

Friendship with oneself is all important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world. if you don't even accept yourself, how can you accept others? you may have made mistakes in the past that you can't forget. but forgive yourself for them. you perhaps don't have the traits you want in life. but accept yourself as you are. :)

2. Be honest (relationship is nothing when trust is gone)

A dishonest person has no chance of having true friends. (Sincerity may be comforting --> and insincerity: just a lie. But, depends on your motives and what was intended).

3. Accept others

A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are. Other people may do you wrong or have some bad habits you don’t like. But you are not perfect yourself so there is no reason for you not to accept them. (nobody prefect)

4. Never make a promise. (why?? because you know you can't keep it. right?)

Good friendship is based on trust. If you break a friend's trust, the friendship may be very hard to salvage. Of course, if you have made a promise and planned to keep it, but circumstances beyond your control conspire to prevent it, let your friend know as soon as you find out.

5. Take initiative to help

                                          'Make use of your friends by being of use to them.'

                                                              Benjamin Franklin

A true friend doesn't wait until someone asks his help. Instead, he takes the initiative to help others. This, of course, is easier said than done. To do this, you should be on the lookout for needs.

6. Don't be selfish (grabbing, stealing, envying or begging)

That's are big No's in the rules of friendship. The friend will soon get tired of this and eventually move towards more self-less people who are willing to give the same as one gets, but a good friend will not demand it, yet one might mention being tired of it. Even if you are a total wreck, don't expect constant sympathy.

...LET'S BE FRIEND...

p/s: just follow the golden rules and enjoy having this time because a lot of people need guides. Actually all we need to do is be nice, caring and share!


(dah penat bebel-ing.. have a great day sumer.. <3 )

iNi kiSaH pAyUnG.. HRC PATTAYA

hye peeps..have a nice day lolz


nak crite kesah payung.. tengok aku punyer trademark sudeh 'the bruising adventures of clumsy girl'. aku bukan setakat hari nie jer clumsy, fussy, terbolash atau loqlaq.. memang berzaman la dari sejak dahulu kala lagi aku dilahirkan.. tapi sejak masuk Universiti neh, menjadi-jadi pulak.. haiiiiishhh.. (orang yang tersayang diharap bersabar.. :)) )

nak dijadikan cerita, hari nie 08.06.2011.. bukan main awal pagi lagi bangun mandi.. aku ade intersesilah+ date jgk..kalo tidak, tak ader makna nyer aku nak bangun pagi..okeh siap2 mandi2, mekap, datangla pakwe aku. hari nie die hantar aku pegi kelas..rajin pulak die, bukan jarang2 die rajin tp die memang perajin. aku tengok bawah garage esma ngan tasya nak pegi kelas dah..awal la sebab nak cilok orang punye assignment..haha.. kami makan la kejap, nasi punyer la sedap. macam makan kat kenduri.. okess dah siap makan.. die anta laa aku pegi kelas.

sampai jer depan foyer DKG3, die cakap 'amek la payung neh..kesian pulak nak balik petang kang panas'..aku tanya, payung mane nie??  warna pink ke merah?? xkan nak amek payung panjang kowt.. malu la orang lain sume bawak payung yang boleh wat kecik tue.. die cakap'amek la yang mane-mane aje.. hahhhhh.ape lagi, senyum berderet meleret laa aku.. pastu masuk la kelas.. okes kelas S.T.A.T.I.S.T.I.K ini sangat bosan tahap tenuk tido.habuk aku xpaham..tapi aku bangga sebab 'assignment' kami dah siap awal. arini blajar lagi pasal probability..okeh, sangat2 bebai kepala aku.. xtipu wooo..


2pm.. ok guys, times up..see you all tomorrow..katanya lecture kami..pn.fazzillah..gembira hati bagai sebab dah nak balik..rasa macam tah pape jer dalam kelas tue.. balik ngan moto efa, rumate aku..mula- mula efa antar esma, pastu efa mai amek aku pulak..then last skali amek adinda wan (tacha) hehehee.. hujan boleh tahan jugak..sampai bilik, aku terus on lappy dengan senang hati neh kononnya..dorang dok sembang sambil makan..maklumla kelas awal sangat sampaikan nak breakfast and lunch pun xsempat..kami lepak sambil makan, sambil story morey sambil layan pesbok, sambil dengar lagu sampai la ke petang..


dekat-dekat kol5 laa time aku rase mengantuk xhengat dunia..tengok efa dah sedap baring tuh, aku pun ape lagi join laa jugak  okehh sempat terlelap  3minit.. tibe-tibe aku tersentap.. alamak!!!!!!!! aku lupa bawak balik payung!! yer sah-sah aku tinggal kat DKG3.. aku carik dalam beg, bawah meja, kat letak kasut.. memang xder weiii..mati aku mati!! tengok jam dah dekat 5.20..aku selamber kejutkan efa tido mintak kunci moto sebab nak balik sana nak amek payung...pastu siap g ketuk-ketuk bilik esma lagi(xder point aku kejutkan die, aku yang terkejot sebenarnya hahaha)

uwaaaaa..dalam hati dah dup..dap..dup..dap..mintak-mintak laa ade..law tak, naya aku kena cepuk dek pakwe aku..nak start moto pulak xboleh, nak amek helmet yang sangkut bawah kusyen moto xboleh, last2 moto hidup tapi helmet dok lekat kat kusyen.. ahhhh xhirau..aku bawak jugak moto sambil helmet dok tepi moto.. ahhhhhh malu nyer.. sampai jer kelas, aku dah risau babe takot payung tue kena cilok..dalam hati, mintak-mintak laaa ade.. sampai kelas, alamak semua orang dah xder..payung aku camner?? masuk kelas, intai belakang.. owhhh ade. alhamdullillah.. ingatkan dah kena cilok.. memang nasib aku baik and rezeki aku sebab xakan kena marah and payung xhilang..aku janji lain aku akan lebih care-FUL..bukan care-LESS..  balik bilik dengan perasaan ghumbira.. dan terkesima dah takut..harap xjadi lagi..


korang ade petua nak suh xjadi clumsy sangat??? cer share. :)

the meaning of 'i'm y0urs'

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks, now I'm trying to get back

Before the cool done run out I'll be giving it my bestest
And nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

But I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love

Listen to the music of the moment people, dance and sing
We're just one big family
And it's our God-forsaken right to be loved loved loved loved loved

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm sure
There's no need to complicate, our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours
D-d-do do you, but do you, d-d-do
But do you want to come on
Scooch on over closer dear
And I will nibble your ear

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and I laughed

I guess what I be saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanities and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do, our name is our virtue

But I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

(I won't hesitate)
Open up your mind and see like me
(No more, no more)
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find that the sky is yours
(It cannot wait, I'm sure)

So please don't, please don't, please don't
(There's no need to complicate)
There's no need to complicate
(Our time is short)
'Cause our time is short
(This is our fate)
This is, this is, this is our fate
I'm yours..   by: JASON MRAZ



.......you know guys how much i love this song..yes, this song.. i'm yours by jason mraz.This song is personal to me. i dedicated this song to him. I really looked deep within the meaning, and realized it's pretty simple but I never understood it. In my opinion, life is all about perception. When you are in love with someone, all you see is good, for that moment. You see good through that other person who helps you see good through yourself. There is a lyric that says "There's no need to complicate, our time is short." Don't argue about stupid things; enjoy the moment, enjoy each other while you can, because life never stops, it's not a train. 


One person may let go while you still hold on. If you stop, you won't live. So although he broke my heart (i know he will never do that) and shattered it into a million pieces, he taught me that life is so beautiful. Perception is a word I look at differently now. I love the emotion of pure happiness and pure love. Jason Mraz pretty much says enjoy the sun while you can. Eventually it'll get dark; but enjoy the moment. And Mr. Mraz, I'll enjoy the moment when my soul mate is here, I'll know my life's meaning. Hope this helps some people. This song may not mean the same to everyone, but this is what it means to me, from the heart.......

My NiNjA viNTaGe.. ~MNA~

 since i fell in l0ve with y0u

i just can't live without y0u

i am going crazy ab0ut y0u

because i am always thinking ab0ut y0u

my l0ve is just f0r y0u

my l0ve is y0u..

p/s: Mohd Niekmat Ariffin ... y0u are my w0rld.. :D

perlekeh dara??

adakah ia (dara) penting???

heyy..mestilahkan..bagi aku, dara neh berkaitan dengan kesucian dan kehormatan seorang gadis. dan aku xtahu kenapalah ade sesetengah manusia yang bangang boleh pulak mengaku xder dara.. apelah bodo sangatkan dok jaja sana sini diri tue dah kontang..dunia sekarang memanglah (malu buang kat kaki, otak bersepai). korang agak-agak ada ke lelaki mau kat gadis yang xder dara?? cer kite tengok dari sudut agama Islam itu sendiri, nak pilih calon insteri pun digalakkan pilih gadis kowt..

pada aku, ianya SANGAT AMAT TERAMAT penting. kalau tak , buat apa kawin kan ? tapi aku terfikir. macam mana dengan nasib gadis gadis yang dirogol secara paksa atau gadis yang daranya diragut tanpa kemahuannya? apa akan jadi pada nasib si gadis ? tapi camner pulak ngan gadis (0psss layak ker digelar gadis) yang terpaksa dalam rela neh?? na'uzubillah mintak simpang jadi semua ini :")


kesimpulannya, biar nampak bodoh tapi jangan jadi bodoh!! chill.......